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What
is MSBP?
MSBP
stands for Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy, a rare psychological disorder in which
the caregiver, usually the mother, either fabricates or inflicts illness on her
child to gain attention. This questionable disorder was authored by Englishman,
Roy Meadow, who published his first findings of a new form of child abuse in
1977. The term comes from a man by the name of Baron Von Munchausen, known for
his tall tales, whose only child, Polle, mysteriously died at
1 year of age.
MSBP
has been referred to by many as the new "Witch Hunt" of our
generation. When doctors are frustrated with an assertive, active mother or
perplexed by a difficult disease or diagnosis, the easiest way to escape the
parent or the frustration is to blame the mother for the entire medical
situation. This has led to innocent families being torn apart and innocent
children being irreparably harmed by the system and by the very doctors who took
an oath to help them.
It
is important to know if you and your family are dealing with a misunderstood
disease or complicated diagnosis that you may be a target for such false
allegations. It is in your best interest to protect yourself and your family,
before it's too late.
Protect
Yourself
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Never go to a
doctor appointment alone.
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Have the person
going with you take notes on what is being discussed and who is in the room.
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Never report
the events of a previous doctor appointment. Instead ask the physician at hand
to contact the previous doctor for a better understanding.
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If
possible, encourage your child to talk to the doctor about what he or she is
experiencing and how often they experience it, to the best of their physical and
mental ability.
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When your child
is in the hospital do your best to have others stay with your child periodically
and have them take notes on everything that occurs while there.
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If your child's
disability and/or disease is in question, always refer to it as suspected and
NOT diagnosed. Better yet, if there is any question, do not answer. Instead
refer the doctor to the physician or facility that brought it to your attention.
(It is the physician's responsibility to clarify and confirm-NOT YOURS!)
Protect
Your Family
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Never make a
major medical decision about your child without the presence of your husband,
family member or even a trusted friend.
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Always require
copies of any written appointment report (it is your legal right). Review and
make any corrections necessary to discrepancies
that you observe in the report. Contact the office or facility and ask that the
corrections be made immediately and a new report rendered so as to prevent a
cascade effect of miscommunication between physicians and/or parents.
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Do your best to
involve third parties in your home life either through friends, neighbors, or
even agencies to ensure that you have others observing the reported symptoms in
your child.
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Never be the
only one caring for your child! Encourage your husband to be more involved, and
if a father is not an option, turn to friends, family, or even your local
church.
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